Commandment 3: Set Limits and Enforce Them  It is very important for two parents to establish the family ground rules early in the new relationship. In fact, it’s wise for couples to discuss these boundaries before the marriage occurs. As rules and consequences are discussed and followed, it becomes easier for parents and children to respond when something goes wrong.                            

Commandment 4: Allow the Children an Outlet for Feelings for the Biological Parent  Your stepchildren will always have feelings for their biological parent. To become jealous or undermine that interaction will only hurt your relationship and increase their feelings of loyalty to their natural parent.  Encourage these feelings for the biological parent.  Ask your new spouse to encourage the children to have respect for you.

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