When other people catch on that you want to step it up in your life, it is amazing how much unsolicited advice zooms in your direction.  This advice on where you are going in your life or where you want to go can happen even if they don’t know that you made a commitment to step it up. 

Since I am known as the Step It Up Queen I have had many people come into my life and project the expectation that I should step in up in the area or arena that they want me too.  What they don’t understand in the Step It Up Living rule that only each individual gets to decide what and where they want to step it up in.  It is fair.  After all it is your life, not your spouse’s, parent’s, child/ren’s, or business partner’s.  Granted, it is good when someone points out that you’re on a path that is going to lead where you don’t want to go.  This is completely different than someone wanting to put their beliefs and value system on you and make you fit their picture of stepping it up.

Posted in: Self Improvement at 3:55 pm