I recently read Greg Haller’s letter to the editor in the Oct. 2 issue of “NewsandTribune.com.” Great insight.  As a victim of domestic violence I know that the stress, fear and dread of that experience.  It led to the breakdown of my health. The real insidiousness of abuse can’t be measured.  For example, how did my fear and poor health affect my children despite the fact I made every effort to be present for them?  What are the long-term effects on the rising generation?

To add to the list of things to do during October Domestic Violence month: 

*Become educated on the complexity of abuse.  The more people understand abuse and what it’s like for victims the more prepared to identify, prevent and avoid harm they are.  Read novels like Silent Cries: A Woman’s Journey to Freedom written by a survivor that delves into the psyche of the abused person.  This gives insight into the victim and their obstacles.   

*Teach victims to develop a personal support system.  When a victim has a team behind them they are more likely to succeed.  (Visit www.redemptivecommunity.com for more information.)           

*Become a supportive ally for victims.           

*Send messages to the abuser that they are of worth, but their abusive behaviors are unacceptable.     

The only way I got out of my situation was through community involvement.  There are many others who can be saved.  We must become educated and take steps to prevent more statistics.

 http://www.newsandtribune.com/archivesearch/local_story_275174520.htm?start.int=15.

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